“Love is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part.
Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion. That is just being “in love” which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident. Your mother and I had it, we had roots that grew towards each other underground, and when all the pretty blossom had fallen from our branches we found that we were one tree and not two.”
– Captain Corelli’s Mandolin
Filmul e facut in 2001 … acum vreo 9 anisori. Cam 7 ani de dating am eu. Asa ca povestea asta a sunat frumos in capul meu cand aveam 19 ani si mai suna si acum. De asta, cand vine vorba de o noua relatie, ma gandesc ca noua poveste va fi “the one” pentru ca imi place povestea copacilor care au devenit 1 si sper, in sinea mea, ca mi se va intampla si mie. Am crezut odata ca mi s-a intamplat, dar nu am avut radacini asa de puternice si eram amandoi imaturi, si a fost greu sa renunt la ideea ca nu se mai poate pentru ca atunci am fost cel mai aproape de a fi “un singur copac cu cineva”. Dar am renuntat.
Asa ca am inceput o noua relatie si habar nu am daca o sa fie “the one”, ca in poveste.
Eu doar sper.
Asta e singura intentie clara – speranta.